Am I Normal?
Am I Normal?
It's 3:00AM and
instead of sleeping, I'm trying to
figure out how
to get listed near the top of the search
engines. Am I
normal?
Am I normal? I
pondered that question this morning
while I quickly
checked email one last time before
shuffling the
kids in the car and off to school.
Am I normal? It
crossed my mind again while racing back
toward my home
office as I watched a group of moms
head to the
bagel shop for coffee and a chat.
Am I normal?
This afternoon, as my neighbors talked
intensely about
the latest episode of ER, my mind kept
wandering back
to my web site, and I wondered if that
was normal.
My mother tells
me I should quit thinking about business
so much and just
enjoy my children, which I do, but I
still wonder, am
I normal?
Am I normal? My
friends look at me as if they've seen
an alien when I
tell them that I'm never going back to
my corporate
marketing career. I'm building an Internet
empire from my
home, would they like one too?
Now, don't get
me wrong. I love life and live it to the
fullest, with
lots of playtime. But, ambition and the
challenge of
"building the perfect beast" push me
relentlessly
sometimes. I figure you can relate if you
are reading this
article. You are looking to create
something bigger
than yourself, too!
But, it's a
crazy world we live in. A world where
people have
learned to stifle their dreams, their
desires, their
creativity. We are taught to "settle"
for what we are
dealt in life. All too often, when we
try to move
beyond that, those closest to us try to
hold us back,
save us from ourselves.
"Consider
yourself lucky for what you have."
"It's a good job
and the benefits are great."
"The average
American family has thousands of dollars
in credit card
debt."
"It's too
risky."
I don't know how
you feel, but I want to LIVE my dreams,
have my heart's
desires and allow my creativity to
blossom. I want
to be my own boss, work in my pj's if
I choose, take a
four hour lunch to go shopping and
fire myself when
I'm not measuring up. (Of course, I'm
eligible for
rehire tomorrow!)
Normal SHOULD be
waking up when your body is rested,
not when the
alarm clock rings. Normal SHOULD be
taking a
vacation when it fits your family's schedule,
not when your
seniority allows. It SHOULD be having a
parent at home
when a child comes home from school.
To me, normal
ISN'T sitting in rush hour traffic twice
a day. It ISN'T
working fifty weeks in exchange for
two weeks off a
year, or five days on for two days off
a week. It ISN'T
wearing my name and picture attached
to my
clothing.
Everyone must
determine their own definition of what
"normal" is and
isn't. For those of us who have
decided to step
outside the box, take control of our
lives and build
our own business, normal is anything
BUT normal!
Life is full of
risks, it's true. But, everything
great that has
EVER happened has done so with some
degree of risk.
I don't want to get to the end and
WISH I had taken
just a few risks.
I'm urging you
to take some risks with me! Step up to
the plate!
Decide what it is you want out of your life
and your
business and GO FOR IT! FORGET ABOUT NORMAL!
Create your own
"normal!"
We are at the
very beginning of the new millennium!
The Internet is
overflowing with possibilities, as it
breaks all
growth records ever set by anything, and it
is just not
NORMAL!
As I lay in bed,
building my empire (business) on my
laptop, I
realize just how much I love my
other-than-normal life. I wouldn't trade it for
anything!
The clock says
10:07 PM.
Ahhh, lunch
break!
Jackie Ulmer has worked from home for
over fifteen years, coaching and training thousands on
the secrets to success in a home business. Contact her
through her website at http://www.streetsmartwealth.com
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